There’s always something new happening in New York City. It’s great because I’ve seen the sites many times. I’ve experienced The Cock and bar hopped at local gay bars. But then I realized I wanted something different. I wanted something gay, raunchy, and sexy. And that’s precisely when a friend introduced me to Workman’s Lunch.

What is Workman’s Lunch?

Workman’s Lunch is a lunchtime group that gets together every Thursday in Midtown. It’s pretty much near Times Square.

The lunchtime hours are from noon to 3 pm. It’s for men working in the area who need to shoot their load right here, right now, because they only have one hour to do so, then get back to work.

Basically, it’s a sex party that attracts gay locals, visitors, and tourists of all kinds.

Sounds hot, right? So I decided to check it out.

Who is Workman’s Lunch?

Bear Party NYC (now called Lodge NY) organizes Workmans Lunch. They organize many sex parties in the city. It’s for men only, and currently, they’re only allowing fully vaccinated individuals to enter. Yes, you must show proof at the door.

Bear Pary NYC Party Schedule

Bear Party NYC hosts parties almost every day of the week at many different times. Therefore you can always make one or the other.

Currently, their weekly schedule is as follows:

• Tuesdays (Workman’s Lunch) 12noon -3pm in Midtown – $25 (coming after Labor Day 2021.)

• Wednesday 6 pm-9 pm in Midtown – $25

• Thursday (Workman’s Lunch) 12 noon-3 pm in Midtown – $25

• Thursday nights from 7-11 pm at Paddles (250 W 26th St, basement). $28.

• Friday nights 6pm-9pm in Midtown – $25

• Saturday afternoon 1pm-5pm at Paddles in Chelsea (250 W 26th St, basement) – $30

• Sunday afternoon at 1pm-5pm at Paddles in Chelsea (250 W 26th St, basement) – $30

They have pop-up parties and some non-weekly events as well. Check their website or join their newsletter to receive notifications. And if there are any cancelations, you won’t know unless you’ve signed up for their newsletter.

I went to their Thursday noon party to see what this lunchtime group is all about. I’m a gay man. And I love lunch, especially with ravenous NYC men who just want to get off and get back to work. So, I’m excited to share all the details with you.

My Experience at Workmans Lunch in Midtown

I’m nervous. I can’t find any information on this sex group. Their website consists of one page with an email subscription form that I happily subscribed to.

I diligently Google Map it. Their entrance looks like a side door to a building. Is this legit, or am I walking into someone’s home to get mugged?

I always think of all bad outcomes first. I hate that I do that to myself. So I do more research. That’s when I found Bear Party NYC’s website. It answered all my questions and made me feel at ease.

So I thought to myself, “This is research for the blog. People need to know about these events. Sex is a healthy part of our lives. So, let’s go.”

I get there early. My heart is racing. I’m very nervous. I stand a few buildings down to wait and watch the time. 

As noon arrives, a guy walks down and opens the door. 12:01, three guys walk in. So I decide it’s now or never.

I walk in and head up the stairs to the third floor. They ask for my ID and proof of vaccine.

As they let me in, they inform me that it’s $25 at the front desk. 

They hand me a hanger for my clothes. It’s jockstrap or mandatory nude only. No cute underwear. Jockstrap or nude. Since I didn’t have a jockstrap, I stripped.

Shoes are a must. But, I came prepared. So, I hang my pants by its belt loop, so my cell phone doesn’t fall out of my pocket. I place all my cards and IDs in my shoes.

I give the man my clothes, and he hands me a ticket. You use this ticket to retrieve your clothes at the end.

Their website says to bring exact cash (cash only.) So I brought $25 exactly and no change. If you remember, when I was at Attack in Madrid, all my coins fell on the floor trying to hang my clothes. I didn’t want that happening again. 

In fact, I only brought what I needed—nothing else.

Now that I am naked, I’m ready to explore the venue and report back. If all else fails, at least I can watch and have a great post for you guys.

The Venue

Since I’m the fourth person to arrive, I have a clear view of everything. The front desk is technically inside the foyer. It contains a big bag of chocolate, sodas, water, and other soft drinks.

You’ll also find condoms and lube throughout the place.

No alcohol, drugs, or overly aggressive behavior is allowed. This is pure sexual enjoyment.

Past the foyer, there is a black curtain. Directly to the left, there is a restroom for you to wash up after you’re done. To the bathroom’s right, a hallway goes into a living room area with leather-covered benches, sofas, and a sling in the corner. 

The living room is a giant open space with dim light for everyone to play with or watch.

The hallway that leads to the living room area is made of black curtains. As you enter this play space, half of it is dim with a leather sofa to fuck on. The other half is pitch black.

Leather sofas line this area as well. 

There’s a small area at the far right of this room with gloryholes, but it was so dark, I don’t think anyone noticed it.

That’s the entire venue. It’s an intimate loft space that can hold approximately 50 guys.

At this point, I decided to sit and watch the working lunchtime men roll in.

The Men

The men began rolling in, and the place filled up. They close the doors about an hour into it, so everyone tries to get here before shutting the entrance.

There were about 30 or so guys today. That may not sound like a lot, but it was a thirsty group.

Everyone wanted to play. 

Since Bear Party NYC hosts this party, you know there will be a lot of bears. 

But there was a whole lot more than that. 

Several otter-types with beautiful hairy chests attended. Bears with wrist-thick cocks. Handsome jocks and, yes, a couple of rippled six-pack fit guys.

Bodies of all kinds. Races of all kinds. It was hot to see Middle Eastern men playing with Latin guys. Black guys giving it to white guys and hung New York Italian men pounding petite Asian men on their lunch hour. It’s a great group of guys—what a great way to spend your lunchtime.

What I’m trying to say is that even though I’m very nervous and timid, this group made me feel welcomed. They have no hang-ups about race or body type. It’s a free-for-all where everyone can feel good about themselves. 

There is absolutely no pressure to participate. It’s all up to you.

Ages were all over the map. You can play with younger guys or older guys, or both.

The attitude is very chill. There was no pretentiousness at all. Everyone wants to have a good time. And, although you can’t be everyone’s type, people are respectful if they aren’t interested in you.

What’s It Like to Play at Workman’s Lunch?

As the venue fills up, the better the atmosphere becomes. Some men are literally here because they work in the area (I chatted with some afterward.)

These workmen come, shoot their load in a hot stud, and head back to work. It’s awesome to have an outlet like this.

The sling gets used often. You can have your one-on-one session with your stallion or line-up guys to take their turn. It’s up to you.

Although, I found the easiest thing to do is to get on your knees and gather a group. Everyone is eager to fill a hungry mouth. And many handsome men love to share a nice bottom. And some of these guys are so hard. They’re tough to handle. It’s so damn hot!

You can have your taste of everyone in the room if you want, or you can just watch if you don’t want to play.

You can sit back and have guys blow you on a comfy leather sofa, or you can get split roasted. It really is just a fun place where there’s no judgment. 

It’s a safe space for men to be men. 

Although they provide lube and condoms, if you’re tool is gigantic, you’ll have to bring your own. BB is allowed, but that depends on what you want.

New York City’s Workmans Lunch group is the best lunchtime you can have. I think all men need to check out Workmen’s Lunch as well as their other parties.

The party ends when the last man shoots his load, or 3 pm comes around, whichever comes first.

What You SHOULD NOT Expect at Workmans Lunch

Workmans Lunch group in New York City is not a hardcore fisting fetish club. But they do have parties like that. Check out their website for details (I’ll list it below.)

Workman’s Lunch in Midtown has a great sexual atmosphere. It’s not for PNP. It’s not a party where you get drunk and fuck. They do not sell beer or cocktails here, and they will not let you inside if you come intoxicated.

If you’re the type of guy that can only have sex with chiseled prince charming with a six-pack, blond locks, and blue eyes, this party is not for you. Yes, some guys here might look like this, but they’re ready to play with everyone.

If this offends you or you’re uptight about one-night stands, this party is not for you.

Otherwise, Workman’s Lunch in Midtown is a sexually liberating experience that everyone needs to try once or weekly.

What Can You do in New York City in 24 Hours?

Suppose you have a layover in New York City for a day. You can check out fantastic sites like the Brooklyn Bridge, the Highline, the Oculus, Empire State Building, and the World Trade Center. But now, you can add Workmans Lunch to your list of incredible daily activities.

I love this city!

Let me break it down for you:

I thoroughly enjoyed Workmans Lunch in Midtown. I love that New York City has parties like this almost daily! New York City has a hidden edginess I love. But we just need to find it.

Do I recommend Workmans Lunch? Oh yes! Go while you’re in town. Just tell your family you’re going to see Times Square and catch up with them later. You won’t regret it.

If you’re interested in attending Workmans Lunch sign up to their email list to get the address of their venues.

Here is the Workman’s Lunch website: https://www.workmanslunch.com

Here is the Bear Party NYC website: https://www.bearpartynyc.com

Bear Party NYC’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/bearpartynyc